On Friday the 7th of October, we woke up to a story run by The Nairobian about how Betty Kyallo risked it all for a piece of Sultan but that love soon turned sour. Interestingly these are the statistics in America of successful second marriages or dalliances after a woman has divorced her first husband:

"Past statistics have shown that in the U.S. 50% of first marriages end in divorce. 67% of second marriages and 73% of third marriages end in ."

So if we were in America, Betty Kyallo would only have had a 33% chance to make things work with Sultan or 3 out of 10.

The only cause of divorce is marriage. I will never get married but this story is not about me. It is about a man who from the whispers I am catching was advised against marrying Betty. Actually, in her interview with True Love, she said Denis Okari had even bailed out on their traditional wedding ceremony.

The one thing that is clear for all to see is the fact that Betty Kyallo's actions were a cruel exercise in humiliation to Denis Okari. Atleast that is what I believe. You see, while I do not empathise with alot, I can empathize with humiliation.

I was enjoying some water (I nolonger drink alcohol) with my uncle when the topic of Betty Kyallo and her uhm... Affairs.

I do not judge her because my uncle taught me about hypergamy and it explains what Betty Kyallo was upto. However, while what she did wasn't condemnable, how she went about it was. You see, Betty and Denis were blessed with a little daughter, a child who should be protected at all costs from her mother's controversial affairs (pun unintended).

#1. Accepting money from the man cuckolding him

According to The Nairobian, Betty Kyallo had Joho finance her wedding in part. Can you imagine a man having to accept his fiance's contribution to their wedding only to later learn that she got it from the man that was cuckolding him?