'Ya kwao imewashinda....' Ben Pol slams critics advising him on his marriage, tells them to focus on theirs

Piece by: Peninah Njoki
Entertainment

Tanzanian artist Bden Pol and husband to Keroche heiress Anerlisa Muigai has hit back at critics insinuating that his marriage is on the rocks.

Word on the street is that the 'Moyo Mashine' hit maker has filed for divorce barely and year after he secretly wed Anerlisa.

Taking to his Insta stories Ben pol now says it's ironical that people who give you marriage advise are those whose relationships have failed.

'Ushauri wa maana zaidi kuhusu mahusiano/ ndoa utaupata kutoka kwa watu ambao 'Ya Kwao' yamewashinda !! Sasa kazi kwako, unataka kuwa na akili nyingi au unataka kulicheza "densi" lako kwa kadri unavyoliona wewe mwenyewe ?

His sentiments come days after his wife blasted toy boys who are hitting on her saying she can't keep a man.

In an Instastory, Anerlisa posted a cryptic message.

It read,

“CAREFUL WITH PEOPLE WHO PUBLICLY EMBARRASS YOU SO OTHERS CAN JUDGE YOU WHILE THEY MAKE THEMSELVES LOOK LIKE ANGELS.”

In another post she directed her words of advice to young men who are trying to woo her thinking she is now single.

Anerlisa set the record straight.

“THE NUMBER OF PEOPLE ALWAYS READY TO TAKE OVER SOMEBODY ELSE’S POSITION IS THE REASON WHY MOST RELATIONSHIPS FAIL. IF YOU GO THROUGH MY DM YOU WOULD THINK I HAD A CONTESTANT LOOKING FOR A PARTNER.”

She continued,

“IT’S REALLY DISGUSTING TO ALSO SEE PEOPLE OFFERING TO MARRY ME YET YOU DON’T EVEN KNOW ME PERSONALLY. THE REALITY IS I AM NOT LOOKING FOR ANYBODY AND I AM NOT FREE!!!”

Adding,

“AND TO THE 80% F BOYS IN MY DM, TRY TO PULL UP YOUR SOCKS AND START WORKING HARD FOR YOUR MONEY. LOOKING FOR INDEPENDENT WOMEN TO TAKE CARE OF YOU IS REALLY SHORT-TERM. WOMEN TOO GET TIRED OF TAKING CARE OF YOU!!! IF YOU KNOW YOU KNOW.”

Hiii ni kama ndram ni kama vindeo.