Ladies take notes! Learn the things men secretly want in bed

Piece by: Caroline Mutembei
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1. Enthusiasm

No one wants to have sex with someone who isn’t into it.

A girl who’s good in bed is someone who’s enjoying the experience.

She’s into comfortable talking about her sexual desires, or simply showing excitement to have sex with you.

2.Communication

Sex is all about communication; without it, it’s going to be bad sex.

You don’t need to have a three-hour long conversation about sex, but you need to be on the same page.

What feels good for you, what feels good for her.

If you both don’t know what pleasures each other, there’s going to be a big problem.

3 .Self-confidence

A woman who’s good in bed is a woman who is confident about herself.

 We all have our insecurities, but when you are in the moment, you let go and enjoy it.

Self-confidence is sexy, considering how much pressure women are put under. It hinders the experience, making them feel less present.

A little bit of confidence can go a long way.

4. Like taking charge

Many women want to take charge, but they’re scared.

And this is a common complaint from men; they want a woman who takes charge.

Listen, though a girl who can take charge is good in bed, this doesn’t mean a girl who doesn’t is bad.

5.Cuddle sessions

Though many men say they don’t like cuddling, the truth is they’re lying.

Okay, not all of them, but many men don’t want to look weak, so, they’ll say they don’t enjoy cuddling.

But they’re human! People love physical contact.

If you cuddle after sex, it’s a way to bond and unwind from the experience.