'Growing up I struggled to fully embrace my sexuality,' Franklin Saiyalel shares

• The fashion designer said that he struggled to fully embrace homosexuality adding that he wishes he knew better.

Franklin Saiyalel
Franklin Saiyalel
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Fashion designer Franklin Saiyalel popularly known as Kenyan Stylista has come out as a member of LGBTQ.

He further detailed the struggles he faced while growing up as gay.

In a lengthy social media post, the fashion designer said that he struggled to fully embrace homosexuality adding that he wishes he knew better.

Saiyalel also stated that after starting to embracing it, he became mindful o being too vocal about it.

Check out the long post;

"I feel aggrieved that I didn’t have a better sense of self back then.  Quite often, I look back and wish I knew more. The funny thing, though, is that the struggles I had growing up are the reason behind who I am today. I struggled to fully embrace my homosexuality.

My teenage years and early adulthood progressed from being in the closet to being discrete; and even when I started to be more open and vocal, I was always mindful that I should not be too much, too loud, too camp …Growing up is a transformation, and the different lives I lived helped me to re-signify my existence and to shape my identity as of today.

Even as we continue to fight for equality worldwide, I feel that I can currently be a representation that there is a world and a community where my identity is celebrated."

He added;

"Why should sexual and gender minorities be persecuted by colonial-era sections of the Penal Code in a country where the constitution itself explicitly protects their rights?

LGBT persons are our brothers, sisters, cousins, friends and fellow citizens. Who I love, how I love and how I identify should not be a crime and should not breed hate and fear. It is time to end oppression and discrimination.

Repeal 162! I hope this image reaches others in the process of becoming who they are and who they want to be. My journey to accepting myself was maybe not as quick as I hoped, but looking back with the clarity of the present, I also understand that taking my time was important."